I just love her. I would add that ultimately each couple defines marriage by determining what it means for them. The joining of two people as one is much more complex than a definition and a license!
Great Video. It makes perfect sense that gay people do not want to redefine marriage we just want to be entitled the same rights as heterosexuals. Its like women getting the right to vote. They did not redefine voting. There voice was just heard that's all and thus became more fair.